of new beginnings

Hey
Assalamualaikum
Long time no see 😊

sometimes
i think to myself whether I am
or I’m not
ready
that is
to be a wife

whether i know what is required
whether i can fully accept what is
or what is going to be
or what has not yet happened
the future
that is
and whether i can fulfill
what is axpected of me

sometimes
i wonder
if my heart can take it
the happiness
the sorrows

whether i can mantain
my intentions
that is to do it for Him

inshaAllah
may Allah redha

and may we continue to purify our souls

-day 4 of 2019
nad mj
day 49 of being Mrs

of memoirs

salam heyyyyu blog
long time no update
ive missed u with a big huge M

u know what?
Ramadhan’s coming soon Alhamdulillah
i’m so glad alrhough i still hv a few more days to finish off my puasa but yehhhh i’m so happy
Alhamdulillah.. i hope Allah makes me to get through this year’s ramadhan inshaAllah...
i find that a lot of things in my life happen near ramadhan... and it’s a month where i feel the closest to Allah...

i really miss my old self thatms close to Him
that makes it a point to read the quran daily
that has an aim to memorize the surahs and the quran

oh Allah please dont let me go astray

please guide me back to you whenever i hv wronged
ameen inshaAllah

forever His slave , please dont forget
yours,
Nahdiya

of me again

dear blog, 

although its a bit difficult to write to you now, but i’ll find a way to manage inshaAllah.. 

dear blog.. i feel i’m a trainwreck.. i don’t have anything to be proud of.. i want to cont studying but i dont have enough funds yet  and i want to marry this guy but i don’t really know him and to top it all of, my heart still feels hurt over what happened before.. 

am i just making too many buts in my life? 

annddd.. i feel like such a loser.. sobs

i think its the hormones talking.. nvrmind 

i’ll be fine

talk to u soon 

nahdiya xx

of some lady like emotions

to love too much is to lose.. because in the end everything is temporary and will be returned back to Him

the pessimist 

the stoical

the one who is having her PMS

-nad

a reminder for myself 

xx

of racing thoughts

once in a while.. when things become quiet.. my thoughts suddenly race back.. to the time when i thought i was happy.. but i wasn't.. when i thought i had met the one who cared enough about and was thoughtful enough to make me laugh.. but he wasn't.. how could i not see it coming? 

sometimes i wonder.. am i too quick this time.. but being a mere mortal.. it was never under my power.. so i return it back to Allah.. with hopes He will give me what is best dunia and akhirat.. inshAllah Ameen.. 

Alhamdulillah ala kulli hal.. 

of thoughts that wander off

heyyy.. i've missed u.. its been a while hasn't it.. 

😊😊

Alhamdulillah ala kulli hal

okay that's all 

currently listening to BsB tucked inside my duvet from my 1st yr medical school.. heh mcm x berkembang je kan 😅

will update u soon 

nahdiya 

take care 

of random thoughts

"cn u please return to me things that i gave u?" 

"what's that?"

"my keychain... and my heart"

😩😩

mainly my keychain... buruk siku ke kalau mintak blk.. thing is, i really like it and its not found in malaysia.. i cn replace it with any other keychain.. haha just giv me back that one.. hmm 

p/s: utk hiburan jerr

of ramblings before the week's end

Alhamdulillah this week of eid break is comingg to an end tmrw.. it's been an interesting one nevertheless.. u know when mat sallehs say interesting means u'r trying to be positive but there were some kind of weird things that happened.. i suppose that's the connotation i have with the word.. 

so anyway, on the day of eid we had the prayer at home.. although its an annual event to go to the mosque for the eid prayers, this year abah was down with the flu.. so we decided not to go to the mosque since no one will b home to look after abah.. thus, we had the eid prayers and takbir in the living room.. it was a nice one nevertheless.. 

then we had the makan2.. and then pak ngah and his fanily came to visit.. Alhamdulillah there was a bit of sharing session.. it was an impromptu session but i felt it really 'basahkan' my soul yang dah kekeringan tazkirah/usrah.. they talked about tauhid and how we need to learn and kenal Allah.. how we need to realize that every aspect of our lives is controlled by Allah.. the hand or fingers that we move is not actually moved byus but by the power of Allah.. even as i'm typing and the thoughts that i have is not from me.. it's by the power of Allah and from Allah orders.. makes me feel so small that nothing in this world belongs to me but i owe everything in the world to Allah.. that all the wealth, intelligence, good looks etc is not ours or due to us but because Allah wills for us to have it.. therefore there's no need for riak/takbur/ujub since nothing belongs to us.. and how we should realise that all the ibadah e.g 5 wajib prayers that we do is not a favour for Allah but it is part of our responsibility to Him.. 

mashaAllah i know it may sound trivial and u may have known it all but having someone close to u remind u that your ibadah is not just acts of tunggang terbalik but there's a deeper meaning and understanding behind our ibadah.. 

i forget sometimes that i have to pray supaya Allah bukakan jalan/temukan dengan org utk tambahkn ilmu to understand islam and semoga ilmu yg kita dapat itu ilmu yang benar and tidak sesat inshaAllah

i pray i can meet someone who reminds me of islam and pulls me back to the straight path if ever i start to stray or become senget sket since i have many flaws.. i hope this doa is not too much since i know i'm not a really good person and don't deserve someone like that.. but i really hope at least i can meet someone i can discuss about islam with.. and not feel weird after that.. and beramal better after that.. ameen

a servant to Allah who most of the time forgets her place, and needs a bit of heart to heart every now and then to remind her of where she stands, 

yours 

nahdiya

ps: please make me among hambaMu yang engkau redha Ameen

of a public holiday

so today is a public holiday for nuzul quran.. which means a day to celebrate the 1st day the quran was being taught to us humans i.e: prophet Muhammad saw..it was on the 17th ramadhan and the first ayat was iqra' bismirabbikallazi khalaq.. which meant read.. in the name of Allah the creator.. 

my mom says it should be a day we learn more about the quran.. but instead i'm reading a book.. one of my faaaaaavourite bimbo-ish book that speaks to me really well..my faaavourite author sophie kinsella's 'my not so perfect life'.. although i'm barely half way through it.. i cn feel the subject is so much like me.. i think a lot to myself.. but keeps quite.. disagrees with most of the things and then at the end, i explode when things go way outta hand.. okay its not really a good trait.. but that's life.. and there are other people like that too.. just so u dont look at me like an alien.. 👽 

nerd alert 🚨 

anyway, i love it because it makes me take my mind off other displeasing, stressful and sad things.. and allows me a few giggles here and there 😊🤓 

okay.. probably need to catch up on my tadarus in a bit.. myb listen to a ceramah on utube.. and go find some stuff later.. 

toodles

yours 

nahdiya

of music to my ears

 

i saw the video of chris martin singing this song on stage this morning with his german fan playing the piano.. i'm a huuuuge fan of chris martin.. he seems like a very genuine kind hearted good humoured british lad.. 😍😍😍 on top of having such a mellow dreamy distinct voice.. so many adjectives 😂 really love this song.. 

the romantic in me has spoken 😂 

maybe it has to do with all the wrong things happening in this world now.. the bully case in upnm, terror attack in london, the boycott on qatar.. makes me feel death is near.. life is short.. 

do things that make u happy.. even if others may not like u for who u are.. have a good niat.. life is short.. 

need to gear up on my tadarus lepas ni since skrg hv to take a break..

u kenduit! jom cube khatam

yours 

nahdiya 

of a nightmare

assalamualaikum.. hi.. 

its me.. 

i woke up this morning with a nightmare.. the dream was about a certain someone.. 

i woke up and it made me cry.. i went to take a hot shower.. cried while in the shower.. and performed my prayers.. 

i thought i was already okay.. i suppose i'm heading there.. in the medical field, when u've lost someone to a disease or passed away.. they say its normal to hv 6 weeks of bereavement.. i'll try to aim for less.. since that someone is still alive.. just that probably gone from my life.. 

i kept thinking why was i so easily cheated.. blinded.. i thought it was real.. but it wasnt.. 

i'm never one that shows my vulnerability unless u r someone i trust.. there's a handful of people i would trust my life with.. u were going to be one.. i was going to tell u that .. but u crushed my heart.. and so easily u did it.. giving me an answer.. which my only option was to walk away.. 

they say once u've experienced a heartbreak or heartache.. u would try to prevent others from having to experience the same hurt and pain.. at least that's what i try to practice.. i couldn't understand why u din't do the same.. 

i suppose my previous entry for the grammar thing was actually a low blow to that someone.. probably i was still bitter and still hurt.. i apologise

anyway, Alhamdulillah.. i feel a lot better now.. tq dear blog for being there since 2008.. we've aged well together 😂 and tq for being loyal.. traits that r honestly so hard to find now 😏

just as Allah brought Nabi Musa and his followers out of their dead end.. i pray Allah will help me the same way.. inshaAllah

please pray for me whoever u are

yours 

nahdiya

p/s waiting for subuh

sometimes i do still miss u.. myb the thought of u.. but not the u that played me like a fiddle

of pet peeves

hi its the ramadhan month Alhamdulillah😊 

i'm really happy cuz it means i can put my focus somewhere else.. 

today i had to take mc..so unlike me.. well i have gastroenteritis.. yesterday i did work late and asked someone to buy me food for iftar.. i think somehow the food wasn't going great with my tummy.. had some vomiting and diarhoea.. and a bit of fever when i checked at the clinic.. am really glad i got to rest.. 

so i saw some things today that i wasn't supposed to see.. or purposely told myself not to see.. u know how everyone has their pet peeves? someone might not take it if the other person is late (flips hair).. and well, i think mine might be grammar.. kay, hate to admit it bt i might hv just a tiny bit of a grammar nazi in me.. i don't really mind if its verbal.. but if its written it kinda makes me cringe a little when reading it..not to say that i'm sooo good in english.. far from that, the ones that make me cringe is if its like really basic grammar.. i don't really mind about spelling.. 

so i accidentally saw it today and i cringed.. and thought "right.. its definitely over..  " 

herher.. no more IGs please

nahdiya 

of ups and downs

i thought it would end already.. bt the thoughts still randomly pop up.. 

its hard..

i kept thinking y dint u fight for me? myb u thought there ws nothing to fight for in the first place.. 

i just dint see it 😔😔

urghh i hate feeling like this

xpe it will go away

praying for a better tmrw

nahdiya

of let this be the last

Alhamdulillah thumal hamdulillah thummal hamdulillah i'm in my right mind again.. huhuhihi 😊

i've done a bit of reflecting and soul defining/searching moments.. 

i think i forgive u.. not because i hv feelings for u.. or because what u did wsnt wrong.. not because i want u back.. but because u too just like me are Allah's creation.. we have flaws.. ur flaws myb in one aspect while my flaws myb in another aspect.. the fact that u din't do the appropriate thing is something that i hv to live with and accept.. as part of what was meant to be.. and i accept that myb what u said about me was rite.. but at the end of the day.. i hope we will be just fine.. u with ur choice and me with mine..

being wrong doesnt make us evil, it means we're human.. and hving courage is to admit to them and apologise.. 

so i let u go.. be free.. and find peace.. and happiness.. as i would hope for myself.. 

yours

nahdiya 

ps: okayyy i think im so jiwang.. bt i hope this is the last of it.. haha i pun da rs malas nk baca my post.. so bosan.. move on pls.. there's so much to look forward too.. bt well u know, the thoughts, they come and go.. rite.. nk settle kn my puase and gearing into ramadhan month inshaAllah.. اللهم بلغنا رمضان oh Allah please let us meet ramadhan again.. ameen and myb just myb being an FMS is not so bad 😉

of closure

if things take too much effort to work out, its probably not worth it. no one has the time to nurse an inconsiderate person with an ego. 

let bygones be bygones.

hi can i get a cab please? please bring this person out of my life. thank u. 😊

im okay

yours

nahdiya

of advice we say to our children

so this is how it feels when our trust is betrayed

or when someone doesnt have the decency to tell u what's happening until u figure out yourself.. 

it's one way or the other.. hearts will be broken.. please be the better man and be honest.. 

apologies can be given.. mistakes can be rectified.. but mistreatment will be hard to forget

they say things happen for a reason.. 

maybe it ws my mistake all along? something that i needed reminding? 

perhaps a reminder that i should be closer to You? that i have long strayed from my mutabaah amal? from reading mathurat in the car? from hafal quran? from reading the meanings? or from putting my tawakul and trust in You?

perhaps what we wanted were on parallel lines, never meant to meet  up anywhere?

perhaps Allah has a better plan?
perhaps its a lesson utk bersangka baik dgn Allah? 

this too shall pass inshAllah

so what if im emotional?
because what u did ws still unacceptable

nahdiya 

of taken from the web

"there's too much on my mind that i want to write but nothing comes out..

that's how i feel when i'm with u 

too much to say but nothing comes out.. just huhus and hahas

but never the essence 

i was never me

and u were never u

unlike the song by james bay that we listened to 

i'm sorry if it was my mistake 

for being so stoical so unemotional
but your late replies were so torturing
wondering why, wondering what if, wondering where's
the apology

i kept every feeling of fondness, endearment inside until we were together

but that was never an excuse for you

not to fight for me,
until i got the answer

and now comes the heartache

but the heartbreak is unbearable.. 

or was unbearable.. 

in a few days time

inshaAllah"

-anonymous-

of weirdness

am i weird? 

of hormones talking

i think i'm falling...

...

...

...

falling in love with you 

urgh.. this is the hormones talking..

come on nausea and bloating and abdominal cramps.. cepatla go away so i can work like normal and not become hormonal..and give MC to anyone yg minta just because i terlebih empathy today.. 

yours, 

nahdiya

of a journey that will end

assalamualaikum

so 2 years ago on this date my beloved brother in law and his parents passed away.. 

i can still remember that night as it was like yesterday still vivid in my mind.. i'm sure my sister remebers it even more clearly.. 

he was a very kindhearted person, always the smiley easygoing husband to my sister.. never heard him complained.. i supposed Allah has a better plan for both of them.. i'm sure of that..there's still a part of our lives that was borrowed and returned back to its owner..  

i'm not sure why but today feels a bit gloomy eventhough the weather isn't as bad.. i suppose that's the feeling when a part of us goes missing.. 

may roh arwah hilmi and his parents ditempatkan bersama2 orang2 soleh ameen.. 

"it's better to have loved and lost, then to have never loved at all" 

inshaAllah He has a better plan for us

i'm thinking now maybe i'm not meant to get married.. haha mcm da putus asa kan.. nope.. inshAllah need to put my focus back to what's important.. 

terasa nak nyanyi lagu ni pulak 'u can tell everybody, yeah u can tell everyboday, go ahead and tell everybody.. i'm the man i'm the man i'm the mannn... yes i am yes i am yes i am..."  😂 

yours 

nahdiya

of being in focus

assalamualaikum 

how r u world? 🌎 i hope everythings fine

it's been a while since i've been to usrah.. so to fill up my empty heart, i've been listening to yasmin mogahed's talk on youtube.. Alhamdulillah she's a very entertaining and passionate speaker.. 

the talk was titled the four types of power to remove weakness.. essentially it was based on the ayat 

so the take home messages for me are:

1. always be humble when u make a mistake and don't try to put the blame on others but admit that we have wronged ourselves and try to change.. because that is the difference between Nabi Adam A.S and iblis after eating buah khuld.. Nabi Adam didn't blame iblis for seducing him but instead admit it was his wrongdoingand repent to Allah 

2. "whatever we focus on, grows"

to always focus on the solution and not the problem.. because what we focus on will become bigger.. if we focus on the problem we will only see the problem as getting bigger because fear will come in but if we focus on the solution, it will give us a way out

3. remember that in every trapped situation/problem, Allah is always with us.. never lose faith e.g Nabi Musa and Bani israil in fronth of the red sea 

a reminder for me, 

nad

of a stoned heart

i used to be a supporter of love

when beauty and the beast used to be my favourite

i used to see love as impartial, nonjudgmental, and kind

now i see love as something hateful

-😔nad

of disturbing images

kejammmmmnyer 

i saw the videos and images of the civilians yg kne sarin gas in syria.. x sanggup nk tgk semua.. half way pun da gugur jantunggg bergenang air mata

this is not a fair war.. there is no humanity in this act 😭😭😭

it doesn't matter if u r on different sides and want to kill each other, but do not kill them in this manner and act so kejam on one another..

yaAllah may u provide the syrians fighting for their lives the strength, reward their suffering with jannah.. and make us muslims unite and strong and able to help them ameen...  

moga doa kami, dana dan bantuan tenaga smpai kpd mereka ameen

of an early start

hi good morning world

assalamualaikum 😊

so today i woke up at 4.30 am to prepare sahur.. yup i'm into training for our soon to come ramadhan.. yippee yay yay! this the best month ever and i'm really looking forward to it inshaAllah... 

anywhooo, i haven't finished repaying my puase..(puase ganti).. thus the reason why i am preparing sahur for my ganti puase today.. i'm thinking i'll be needing a heavy sahur since today i am also oncall.. and tmrw i'm also oncall.. herher.. may my oncalls be peaceful ameen.. 

if all goes well hopefully i can puase also tmrw since i hv about 10 more days to cover sobs sobs.. gambareh!! 💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻

okay it feels really good to wake up this early.. if i were in bristol i would hv gone for an early morning jog.. but don't think i can do it here..quite worried about the safety level in malaysia at the moment.. kids being kidnapped, people being shot,  murder here and there, not to mention the rasuah, kronism, menjatuhkn orang lain aaah scary world this is.. haha suddenly this has become so depressing.. lol it's okay.. do one thing at a time, at least try to improve ourself first since that's the only thing we can control anyway.. 

hehe so my new addiction is joining runs.. its a new resolution my sisters and i planned.. every month to enter at least one fun run.. haha it's not because of the hype but more of wanting to be healthy in a motivating way.. after the run we joined at ioi city we all felt really refreshed albeit only for 5 km..hehe it's probably the endorphins talking. so our next one next month will b in putrajaya inshaAllah

 

and Alhamdulillah i've found a new place to stay.. yay! i'll b moving in next month.. although tis a bit expensive i'm quite satisfied with it.. let's hope i've made a good decision inshaAllah..

anddd i received a text from a friend yesterday.. we haven't contacted for quite a while since we finished our HO.. he texted me to invite me to his wedding nxt month.. haha yes, a person i once had feelings for.. anyway, i'm really happy for them since i know they've been together for some time and it was quite nice receiving a personal invite.. and it felt like home..i guess some people just is smooth with people.. haha i miss that feeling of being home with someone..like u cn let ur guard down.. because the other person is a nice person.. and ur not afraid of being judged by the other person.. because he/she will always hv ur back..  

haha okay enough of my early morning rambling.. i finished my nasi goreng for sahur and air kosong.. hopefully it will last me throughout the day.. wish me luck hihuu 😋😋 

muax, 

yours 

nahdiya

of ape merepek ni

i love to write about matters of the heart.. i love reading about peoples emotions.. 

i love knowing how you feel.. if only u would let me know

but that's not you.. 

be safe 

banyak lagi benda nak buat dalam hidup ni

ni drama jerr

herherher

nahdiya

of a hehe moment

dokter: uncle sakit ape ye? 

uncle: saya sakit kaki...kat sini...(sambil tunjuk ke tapak kaki) kalau nk hujan je mesti kaki saya sakit..

dokter: oh bagusnye.. 

uncle boleh tau bile nak hujan..

dokter dan pesakit: he he he

😋😋

haih comel je

yours hehe

nahdiya

of thought broadcasting

can i endure this? 

yours

nahdiya

rantings i keep to myself

i found a new place to stay. 

huhu 

Alhamdulillah.

wish i could tell you.. 

this past week i've been emotionally stable Alhamdulillah.. feels good 😊

of missing someone

when you make someone your primary but you are the secondary 

#life

is it the time on the month yet? no

hurt

betrayal

dishonesty

feeling: not so good

haha a patient made me cry today

and all of the above emotions

me

nmj

of a moody day

this too shall pass.. 

currently hitting rock bottom

but i will rise up 

just wait

na-da

there are days when u just feel stoical. 

today is one. 

yours 

nad

of thoughts before going to sleep

as i lie awake tonite

i wonder how far i've gotten from u

i hope i'm never too far from you

oh Allah please make me one that loves you more then the love for any of your creations or any dreams that this world may offer

and please make me a fighter for everything that you love 

provide me the strength and make me succeed in this life and hereafter

Ameen 

plan/things to do:

1) read ma'thurat daily

2) hafal juzuk 30

3) cari pendrive and transfer juzuk 30 mishary al afasy to listen in the car

4) visa to aussie

5) ticket for penguins

6) read quran daily

7) solat sunat at least once a day

8) cari islamic relief password to log in

9) bayar zakat

inshaAllah still trying

yours, 

nahdiya 

of mumbles and rambles

heyy mr/mrs blog

i'm feeling a bit nostalgic tonitee 🙄

not sure what will happen this yr.. should i apply masters? should i mintak pindah? should i this? should i that? hm 🙄🙄

its okayy, just decide and pray Allah will giv the best 

mcm senang je ckp kann 😑😑 

ok finee, nk bace harry potter la.. 

bye

yours,

nahdiya